Congratulations on being asked to be a maid of honour! One of the most popular pre-wedding activities is bachelorette parties. If you’re arranging a bachelorette party as a maid of honour, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.
A low-key dinner and an afternoon of spa treatments could suffice for some brides. Other brides prefer a destination weekend jam-packed with exciting activities. In this blog post, we have put together a guide for the maid-of-honour so you can put together the perfect bachelorette party!
Tips for the Maid of Honour
Make It Personal
The best way to make a memorable bachelorette party is to make it unique and special to the bride. Begin by asking what the bride would love at her bachelorette party and any key details that will make it special to her; this includes food, beverages, and games.
Determine whether she wants a casual get-together, something wild, or a luxury dinner.
Make the celebration a reflection of who she is as a person therefore making sure that the plans are in line with her vision is important because it will make the bachelorette party so much more special.
Do Not Overschedule
Not overscheduling is one of our top bachelorette party recommendations. Many bachelorette parties feature extensive schedules jam-packed with activities.
When planning the bachelorette party, remember to leave time aside from the activities for other things. These things may include getting ready, travel times and breaks.
Allow for at least 30 minutes of buffer time before you need to be somewhere as there will always be someone late or something unexpected may occur.
Have a Back-Up Plan
Even the best-laid plans can run into problems. Prepare a variety of activities in case something goes wrong.
Someone’s travel may be delayed, or the bride may decide she does not want to do what you had planned. Keep your cool and be adaptable.
Collaborate with the Bridal Party
If the bride hasn’t given you a detailed list of things she wants, ask for suggestions. Each of you is likely to have various ideas of what the bride may like and have different perspectives on what would make this event ideal for her.
Budget Accordingly
When planning, keep in mind what your guests can afford. Being upfront about costs allows people to budget appropriately and, if required, opt-out of specific activities. Keep in mind that the bride should not be expected to pay for anything unless agreed!
Pick the Location
Choosing your bachelorette party destination depends on several reasons. The first three are self-evident: climate, mood, and activity preferences.
Do you prefer hot or cold temperatures? Is it important to you that it is alcohol-free? Do you want to go clubbing or unwind in a remote cabin? Do you want to go for a hike in the woods or dine at a high-end restaurant in a big city?
These questions will help you narrow down your choices. After that, you’ll want to think about the time of year and the cost of flights.
Confirm Who is Attending
The host should have a clear understanding of base costs for lodging and activities a few months before the bachelorette party. It’s a good idea to contact the group again at this point and give expected costs so that invitees may make their final judgments about going.
Make it clear that if guests cancel after a specific date, they will still be responsible for their portion of the costs.
Bachelorette Party Ideas
Do a Cookery Class
Enjoy a glass of wine while learning how to create culinary magic with the guidance of a professional chef, then sit back and enjoy the results of your efforts together. A baking class is also a wonderful suggestion if your bride has a sweet tooth!
Action Packed Activities
A perfect bachelorette party idea for any bride who is a true adrenaline junkie who yearns for an action-packed weekend. There’s something for all the adventure-seeking brides out there, from zip-lining and water sports to windsurfing. You might even go hiking or swimming in the woods and create your adventure!
Glamping
Glamping combines the enjoyment of camping in the great outdoors with the comforts of home, making it the ideal bachelorette party option for a large group of women. In a bell tent, tipi or yurt, you can sleep under the stars.
Every region of the country has its hidden gem; the hardest thing is choosing which one to visit! If the bride loves the outdoors and camping then this bachelorette party idea is ideal.
Have Your Party at Home!
Why not host a hen party at home if you’re on a budget or short on time? Set up a small spa in the living room with champagne on ice, robes and slippers, and gather around to paint nails and apply face masks.
You could throw a themed dinner night with a variety of interesting dishes to sample, or you could host your afternoon tea party with fine china, sparkling, and delectable pastries.
Or if you want to throw in some childhood nostalgia then host a slumber party inspired by your favourite teen films. The options are limitless for your bachelorette party!
Yoga or Meditation Retreat
Take your girls on a yoga retreat for some ultimate zen and pre-wedding relaxation. Get all the relaxation time you’ll need to deal with wedding stress and find inner peace… all while hanging out with your besties! What better way to get ready for your big day than this!
Wine or Beer Tasting
If you love a good drink but don’t quite fancy a wild night out then this may be the ideal bachelorette party idea for you. Go to a winery or brewery and spend the afternoon drinking and tasting exquisite wines or tasty beers!
This is a great bachelorette party idea if you want to enjoy some drinks whilst being able to gossip away with your girls.
Rent a HouseBoat
You could consider renting a houseboat for a weekend of swimming and laughing with your friends for a fun but low-key outdoorsy bachelorette party. We adore this concept for joint Bachelor(ette) Parties – bringing all of the bachelors and bachelorettes together for one big wedding party!
This results in a single large celebration and allows everyone to get to know one another better before the big day.
Time to Start Planning the Bachelorette Party!
It’s time to start planning the bachelorette party now that you’re bubbling with ideas! While it’s acceptable to be engaged in the planning of your bachelorette party, we always advocate entrusting the task to someone you can trust. It’s usually the maid of honour, but you can pick anybody you like.
By delegating the majority of the organising to someone else, you’ll have more time to enjoy the festivities and savour the memories… and your girls, of course!
